{"id":7216,"date":"2022-01-18T16:14:04","date_gmt":"2022-01-18T22:14:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=7216"},"modified":"2022-01-18T16:26:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T22:26:52","slug":"tune-into-what-you-need","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/tune-into-what-you-need\/","title":{"rendered":"Tune Into What You Need"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|125px||123px||&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Nunito&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cHey there, Ms. Tatiana! How are you?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0asked my doctor as I passed by him in the hallway of his practice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cWell, I\u2019m here to see you,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0I said and laughed.\u00a0<em>\u201cThat should tell you how I am.\u201d\u00a0<\/em>He laughed back. His nurse smiled as she invited me to step onto the scale.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cIt\u2019s the holidays,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0I said as I watched her move the scale up, up, up. LOL\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I wasn\u2019t really concerned about a few extra pounds, but rather what was underneath it. You see, the delicious Croatian Christmas homemade treats threw me off my usually well-balanced diet, and even more importantly, I haven\u2019t really been exercising or walking (it\u2019s cold!).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I\u2019ve been writing a lot! I\u2019ve also been coaching, attending Zoom classes, planning, journaling, reading\u2026 and ALL of it while sitting down. That\u2019s a lot of sitting hours.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">My body tried to give me gentle signals. But I didn&#8217;t listen to them because\u00a0 I really wanted to \u2018just finish that one project\u2019 and \u2018just answer just a few more emails.\u2019 I also get into a \u2018zone\u2019 and can stay there for hours, oblivious to my alarms that signal I should stand up and move around a bit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">So I ended up with some lower back pain that I hadn\u2019t experienced before. And when I don\u2019t recognize a pain or sensation in my body, I go see a doc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I can treat symptoms with home remedies, massages, and gentle stretches (and yes, going back to a healthy diet and exercise regime), but I first want to explore. I want to get to the root of the problem so I can eliminate or correct the underlying causes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; min_height=&#8221;721px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Nunito&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-bottom: 0px; font-size: 18px; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 25.2px; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, sans-serif; color: #000000; word-break: break-word;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-bottom: 0px; font-size: 18px; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 25.2px; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, sans-serif; color: #000000; word-break: break-word;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-bottom: 0px; font-size: 18px; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 25.2px; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, sans-serif; color: #000000; word-break: break-word;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cHey there, Ms. Tatiana! How are you?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0asked my doctor as I passed by him in the hallway of his practice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cWell, I\u2019m here to see you,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0I said and laughed.\u00a0<em>\u201cThat should tell you how I am.\u201d\u00a0<\/em>He laughed back. His nurse smiled as she invited me to step onto the scale.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cIt\u2019s the holidays,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0I said as I watched her move the scale up, up, up. LOL\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I wasn\u2019t really concerned about a few extra pounds, but rather what was underneath it. You see, the delicious Croatian Christmas homemade treats threw me off my usually well-balanced diet, and even more importantly, I haven\u2019t really been exercising or walking (it\u2019s cold!).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I\u2019ve been writing a lot! I\u2019ve also been coaching, attending Zoom classes, planning, journaling, reading\u2026 and ALL of it while sitting down. That\u2019s a lot of sitting hours.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">My body tried to give me gentle signals. But I didn&#8217;t listen to them because\u00a0 I really wanted to \u2018just finish that one project\u2019 and \u2018just answer just a few more emails.\u2019 I also get into a \u2018zone\u2019 and can stay there for hours, oblivious to my alarms that signal I should stand up and move around a bit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">So I ended up with some lower back pain that I hadn\u2019t experienced before. And when I don\u2019t recognize a pain or sensation in my body, I go see a doc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I can treat symptoms with home remedies, massages, and gentle stretches (and yes, going back to a healthy diet and exercise regime), but I first want to explore. I want to get to the root of the problem so I can eliminate or correct the underlying causes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-6-1024&#215;390.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (6)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.14.2&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Nunito,Numans&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I do the same with emotional pain, mental challenges (like anxiety and stress), and spiritual struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">Why not treat (and deeply heal) all that prevents us from feeling good while living our lives? This can mean going deep into the root of the problem &#8211;\u00a0 which can be scary, uncomfortable, and feel very vulnerable &#8211; but the wellbeing on the other side of pain is worth it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">So\u2026<strong>What do you do when your body gives you signals\u00a0<\/strong>(whether it\u2019s your body saying it needs rest or more exercise and movement)? How tuned into your body are you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>(In my case, I overestimated what my body could do over the holidays because I compared myself with my younger self and how much I used to be able to do.)\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><strong>What about your heart?<\/strong>\u00a0What do you do when your heart says it needs more peace, or more passion? And what about your spirit (the\u00a0<em>you\u00a0<\/em>that is connected and whole, and that holds the wisdom we often seek elsewhere)?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">Ask yourself:\u00a0<strong>Am I allowing my heart, my spirit, and my body (not just my mind) to be my guides and keep me healthy?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I invite you to reflect on these questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Nunito&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I do the same with emotional pain, mental challenges (like anxiety and stress), and spiritual struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">Why not treat (and deeply heal) all that prevents us from feeling good while living our lives? This can mean going deep into the root of the problem &#8211;\u00a0 which can be scary, uncomfortable, and feel very vulnerable &#8211; but the wellbeing on the other side of pain is worth it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">So\u2026<strong>What do you do when your body gives you signals\u00a0<\/strong>(whether it\u2019s your body saying it needs rest or more exercise and movement)? How tuned into your body are you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><em>(In my case, I overestimated what my body could do over the holidays because I compared myself with my younger self and how much I used to be able to do.)\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><strong>What about your heart?<\/strong>\u00a0What do you do when your heart says it needs more peace, or more passion? And what about your spirit (the\u00a0<em>you\u00a0<\/em>that is connected and whole, and that holds the wisdom we often seek elsewhere)?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">Ask yourself:\u00a0<strong>Am I allowing my heart, my spirit, and my body (not just my mind) to be my guides and keep me healthy?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\">I invite you to reflect on these questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;rgba(224,193,255,0.27)&#8221; divider_position=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.14.2&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;46px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large; 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color: #000000;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||4px|||&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Nunito&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; font-family: Nunito; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/426ZiSPkXcXc\/we7x\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/426ZiSPkXcXc\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1642629995583000&amp;usg=AOvVaw0ZEaDE5F9dES0y_Pje1FfV\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #000000;\">This song<\/a>\u00a0is not related to today\u2019s topic, I just like it \ud83d\ude42 (However, this song is written with such incredible vulnerability of going straight to the root of the emotional pain.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_video src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=T4CouiaCgs0&#8243; 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How are you?\u201d\u00a0asked my doctor as I passed by him in the hallway of his practice.\u00a0 \u201cWell, I\u2019m here to see you,\u201d\u00a0I said and laughed.\u00a0\u201cThat should tell you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7222,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Well, I was going to write a different email today, but then something amazing happened yesterday: Olivia Newton-John and her daughter Chloe Lattanzi released a song, \u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d, which I co-wrote with two other songwriters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I knew it was coming (and I had to keep it secret until it was officially released), but I had no idea what would happen when it was released, and more importantly, how I would feel about it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>My Nashville friends tell me it\u2019s a big deal :) And it was a bit surreal hearing Olivia talk about the song on the TODAY show, knowing we wrote it in my piano room :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You know how it is\u2026 You show up every day and do your work. You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but pushing too hard and stressing about it will only exhaust you and you won\u2019t be at your best when an opportunity comes.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(2) Look for a window, or a crack in the wall, through which you can look to the other side.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I know it\u2019s scary. Try to entertain a thought that those on the \u2018other side\u2019 aren\u2019t monsters, but people with the same fears, same hurt, same pain as you. 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