{"id":6671,"date":"2021-11-08T11:23:32","date_gmt":"2021-11-08T17:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=6671"},"modified":"2021-11-08T11:30:49","modified_gmt":"2021-11-08T17:30:49","slug":"have-you-asked-yourself-this-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/have-you-asked-yourself-this-question\/","title":{"rendered":"Have You Asked Yourself This Question?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|125px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u2019m sure at some point in your life you have asked yourself the question:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cWhat is my purpose?\u201d<em><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(Another way people ask this question is &#8220;What is God\u2019s will for my life?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What did it feel like when you found an answer or even a hint of it?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What did you do when you asked that question and the answer was silence?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This week, I explored the concept of purpose with peers in my coaching certification program, with my coaching clients, as well as on my own in contemplation and in everyday actions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Each of us has a \u2018Purpose\u2019 in life (our inner purpose with a capital \u201cP\u201d), and an outer \u2018purpose\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>The inner Purpose for all of us is simply to be who we were created to be<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; a soul, a child of God. It&#8217;s always the same. We can\u2019t do anything about it. It\u2019s already there and we can\u2019t lose it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>The outer purpose involves using our unique gifts and talents to\u00a0<em>serve<\/em>.<\/strong>\u00a0It can change throughout our lives and it\u2019s something to be discovered, clarified, and cultivated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For example, my purpose as an artist is to inspire others to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things, heal deeper, and love more. My purpose as a mother is to support and love my children on their paths (and inspire them to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I keep my purpose in mind, everything I do feels fulfilling and in alignment with my soul.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I get frustrated with a situation, I have the choice to remember my purpose and see if I can bring any of it into that situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>An awareness of your purpose is a powerful thing.\u00a0<\/strong>We can bring this into any job, any role, any &#8220;title&#8221; we might have throughout our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; min_height=&#8221;854px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u2019m sure at some point in your life you have asked yourself the question:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cWhat is my purpose?\u201d<em><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(Another way people ask this question is &#8220;What is God\u2019s will for my life?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What did it feel like when you found an answer or even a hint of it?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What did you do when you asked that question and the answer was silence?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This week, I explored the concept of purpose with peers in my coaching certification program, with my coaching clients, as well as on my own in contemplation and in everyday actions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Each of us has a \u2018Purpose\u2019 in life (our inner purpose with a capital \u201cP\u201d), and an outer \u2018purpose\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>The inner Purpose for all of us is simply to be who we were created to be<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; a soul, a child of God. It&#8217;s always the same. We can\u2019t do anything about it. It\u2019s already there and we can\u2019t lose it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>The outer purpose involves using our unique gifts and talents to\u00a0<em>serve<\/em>.<\/strong>\u00a0It can change throughout our lives and it\u2019s something to be discovered, clarified, and cultivated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For example, my purpose as an artist is to inspire others to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things, heal deeper, and love more. My purpose as a mother is to support and love my children on their paths (and inspire them to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I keep my purpose in mind, everything I do feels fulfilling and in alignment with my soul.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I get frustrated with a situation, I have the choice to remember my purpose and see if I can bring any of it into that situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>An awareness of your purpose is a powerful thing.\u00a0<\/strong>We can bring this into any job, any role, any &#8220;title&#8221; we might have throughout our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-7-1024&#215;390.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (7)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Yes, even if I was an accountant, I could still find ways to inspire others to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things! Maybe it wouldn\u2019t be a moving song or a painting, but it might be an exchange with a client or a co-worker when they needed someone to talk to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>So, what is your purpose statement?<\/strong>\u00a0(For your life, career, parenthood, or any area of life.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I had an interaction earlier this week that had me pondering about purpose too&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">An arborist came to\u00a0inspect the trees that needed to be trimmed.\u00a0I stood in front of my house with him and he listened to me with interest as I told him about the holly tree that knocks on my bedroom window on stormy nights, the silver maple that \u2018cries sap\u2019 on my car in the summer, and the pine tree that Matthew, the boys and I planted together when we moved in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">He looked at the trees with such gentleness and care that my stories felt more like introducing family members to a friend and less like a business transaction.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I asked him about his job and interest in trees.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">His face lit up. He said he had always loved trees and working outside with nature. He told me about his dream to visit the Sequoias on the west coast, and how, even though he likes the company he works for, he dislikes having to sell their services.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">After he left, I reflected on the fact that the arborist was doing a job that was mostly in alignment with his purpose.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And (having a Franciscan spirit), I thought about how\u00a0<strong>all trees have the same Purpose<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; to transform CO2 into O2 and to be a part of the ecosystem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But the trees&#8217;\u00a0<strong>outer purpose\u00a0<\/strong>is to create shade, to block the view of the neighbor\u2019s house, or to put a smile on people\u2019s faces as they see the bright red holly berries in the middle of winter.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Isn&#8217;t it great how once we learn about something and bring it into our awareness, we start seeing that thing everywhere? \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>What is your\u00a0<em>Purpose<\/em>, and what is your\u00a0<em>purpose<\/em>?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Yes, even if I was an accountant, I could still find ways to inspire others to see beauty and miracles in ordinary things! Maybe it wouldn\u2019t be a moving song or a painting, but it might be an exchange with a client or a co-worker when they needed someone to talk to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>So, what is your purpose statement?<\/strong>\u00a0(For your life, career, parenthood, or any area of life.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I had an interaction earlier this week that had me pondering about purpose too&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">An arborist came to\u00a0inspect the trees that needed to be trimmed.\u00a0I stood in front of my house with him and he listened to me with interest as I told him about the holly tree that knocks on my bedroom window on stormy nights, the silver maple that \u2018cries sap\u2019 on my car in the summer, and the pine tree that Matthew, the boys and I planted together when we moved in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">He looked at the trees with such gentleness and care that my stories felt more like introducing family members to a friend and less like a business transaction.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I asked him about his job and interest in trees.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">His face lit up. He said he had always loved trees and working outside with nature. He told me about his dream to visit the Sequoias on the west coast, and how, even though he likes the company he works for, he dislikes having to sell their services.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">After he left, I reflected on the fact that the arborist was doing a job that was mostly in alignment with his purpose.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And (having a Franciscan spirit), I thought about how\u00a0<strong>all trees have the same Purpose<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; to transform CO2 into O2 and to be a part of the ecosystem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But the trees&#8217;\u00a0<strong>outer purpose\u00a0<\/strong>is to create shade, to block the view of the neighbor\u2019s house, or to put a smile on people\u2019s faces as they see the bright red holly berries in the middle of winter.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Isn&#8217;t it great how once we learn about something and bring it into our awareness, we start seeing that thing everywhere? \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>What is your\u00a0<em>Purpose<\/em>, and what is your\u00a0<em>purpose<\/em>?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>P.S. If you&#8217;d like to work with me personally to uncover your purpose,\u00a0 let me know<\/strong>\u00a0(I have a special exercise that I take people through over the course of two 1-hour sessions). Email me at\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"mail:tajci@tatianacameron.com\">tajci@tatianacameron.com<\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">and we can have a quick chat to see if it&#8217;s the right step for you right now.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>P.S. If you&#8217;d like to work with me personally to uncover your purpose,\u00a0 let me know<\/strong>\u00a0(I have a special exercise that I take people through over the course of two 1-hour sessions). Email me at<\/span>\u00a0<a href=\"mail:tajci@tatianacameron.com\">tajci@tatianacameron.com<\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">and we can have a quick chat to see if it&#8217;s the right step for you right now.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;rgba(224,193,255,0.27)&#8221; divider_position=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;46px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large; color: #be1e2d;\"><strong>Music<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Here is<\/span>\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/x3VwvYAuOqa4\/we7x\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/x3VwvYAuOqa4\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1636477847998000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGqmxYCHvu-Po8ZGw6MDh1wyRc1BQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u201cAll Is Possible\u201d<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. 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Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. 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