{"id":6658,"date":"2021-11-01T13:14:54","date_gmt":"2021-11-01T18:14:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=6658"},"modified":"2021-11-01T13:27:41","modified_gmt":"2021-11-01T18:27:41","slug":"start-living-with-an-awakened-soul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/start-living-with-an-awakened-soul\/","title":{"rendered":"Start Living With an Awakened Soul"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|125px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And just like that, the days got colder and the evenings darker.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I roasted a pumpkin, made a pumpkin curry soup and a loaf of pumpkin bread and let the fragrance of fall spices fill the house. I needed the warm, grounding, heavier foods after the winds came in, bringing a change of temperature that made my head spin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The night it happened, Luna (my dog) woke up around 3 am, ran downstairs, and asked to go outside. I knew she didn\u2019t have to \u2018go\u2019 &#8211; she just needed to stand on the deck and look at the wind in the trees. I was impatient and tired, and just wanted her to come in so I could go back to sleep.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But then, a stray strain of wind\u2019s hair pulled me in and stopped my thoughts. I leaned on the trim of the door and watched nature communicate in that primordial, non-verbal, and beautifully harmonious way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Luna stood at the edge in a strong and alert posture, as if she was standing on a tall cliff overlooking her domain. She listened to the movement of the air, smelled its fragrance, and looked up at something I couldn\u2019t see. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The awe filled my chest as I witnessed my cuddly home-trained suburban pet remembering her origins &#8211; and picking up information about the upcoming storm with her instincts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Then she relaxed and laid down as if she was waiting for someone who wouldn\u2019t be there for a while. I exhaled and decided to let her be. I left the door open for her, grabbed a pillow and a blanket and laid down on the couch to sleep. The air was warm and balmy, even as the wind was picking up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Luna came in after a while\u00a0and snuggled next to me. A strong gust of wind blew the door wide open. Half awake, I closed the door, seconds before the clouds poured out massive buckets of rain\u00a0and the temperature dropped.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I felt the change with a headache, Luna felt it with her inner senses. My body had craved the grounding foods because it\u00a0knew what I needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>We all have this intelligence &#8211; but most of us have either forgotten how to tap into it, or are too busy to pause and listen to it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|3px||7px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And just like that, the days got colder and the evenings darker.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I roasted a pumpkin, made a pumpkin curry soup and a loaf of pumpkin bread and let the fragrance of fall spices fill the house. I needed the warm, grounding, heavier foods after the winds came in, bringing a change of temperature that made my head spin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The night it happened, Luna (my dog) woke up around 3 am, ran downstairs, and asked to go outside. I knew she didn\u2019t have to \u2018go\u2019 &#8211; she just needed to stand on the deck and look at the wind in the trees. I was impatient and tired, and just wanted her to come in so I could go back to sleep.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But then, a stray strain of wind\u2019s hair pulled me in and stopped my thoughts. I leaned on the trim of the door and watched nature communicate in that primordial, non-verbal, and beautifully harmonious way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Luna stood at the edge in a strong and alert posture, as if she was standing on a tall cliff overlooking her domain. She listened to the movement of the air, smelled its fragrance, and looked up at something I couldn\u2019t see. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The awe filled my chest as I witnessed my cuddly home-trained suburban pet remembering her origins &#8211; and picking up information about the upcoming storm with her instincts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Then she relaxed and laid down as if she was waiting for someone who wouldn\u2019t be there for a while. I exhaled and decided to let her be. I left the door open for her, grabbed a pillow and a blanket and laid down on the couch to sleep. The air was warm and balmy, even as the wind was picking up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Luna came in after a while\u00a0and snuggled next to me. A strong gust of wind blew the door wide open. Half awake, I closed the door, seconds before the clouds poured out massive buckets of rain\u00a0and the temperature dropped.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I felt the change with a headache, Luna felt it with her inner senses. My body had craved the grounding foods because it\u00a0knew what I needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>We all have this intelligence &#8211; but most of us have either forgotten how to tap into it, or are too busy to pause and listen to it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-5.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (5)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When we allow space, when we cultivate sitting in silence (through regular meditation or contemplative prayer), we begin to pick up on the subtle side of ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We start living with an awakened soul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Ordinary moments become beautiful and awe-inspiring, and we realize the presence of Divine Love (and God) in everything.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We notice synchronicities around us and accept them as little winks of assurance.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So\u2026 how cool it is that the book I just picked up to read (<em>Wild Mercy<\/em>\u00a0by Mirabai Starr) starts with a chapter titled\u00a0<em>\u201cTurning Inward &#8211; Cultivating Contemplative Life.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Here is the opening:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cContemplative life flows in a circular pattern: awe provokes introspection, which invokes awe.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Maybe you\u2019re making dinner and you step outside to snip chives from the kitchen garden just as the harvest moon is rising over the eastern slopes. She is full and golden, like one of those pregnant women who radiate from within. Suddenly you cannot bear the beauty. Scissors suspended in your hand, tears pooling at the corners of your eyes, you nearly quit breathing. Your gaze softens, and the edges of your individual identity fade. You are absorbed into the heart of the moon. It feels natural, and there is no other place you\u2019d rather be. But the onions are burning and so you turn away and cut your herbs and go back inside.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0Have you had any similar experiences lately? I\u2019d love to hear about them below in the comments!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When we allow space, when we cultivate sitting in silence (through regular meditation or contemplative prayer), we begin to pick up on the subtle side of ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We start living with an awakened soul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Ordinary moments become beautiful and awe-inspiring, and we realize the presence of Divine Love (and God) in everything.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We notice synchronicities around us and accept them as little winks of assurance.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So\u2026 how cool it is that the book I just picked up to read (<em>Wild Mercy<\/em>\u00a0by Mirabai Starr) starts with a chapter titled\u00a0<em>\u201cTurning Inward &#8211; Cultivating Contemplative Life.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Here is the opening:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cContemplative life flows in a circular pattern: awe provokes introspection, which invokes awe.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Maybe you\u2019re making dinner and you step outside to snip chives from the kitchen garden just as the harvest moon is rising over the eastern slopes. She is full and golden, like one of those pregnant women who radiate from within. Suddenly you cannot bear the beauty. Scissors suspended in your hand, tears pooling at the corners of your eyes, you nearly quit breathing. Your gaze softens, and the edges of your individual identity fade. You are absorbed into the heart of the moon. It feels natural, and there is no other place you\u2019d rather be. But the onions are burning and so you turn away and cut your herbs and go back inside.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0Have you had any similar experiences lately? I\u2019d love to hear about them below in the comments!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;rgba(224,193,255,0.27)&#8221; divider_position=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;46px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large; color: #be1e2d;\"><strong>Music<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Here is a 6-minute early episode of what became the \u201cWaking Up In America\u201d Show. It talks about living with an awakened mind and spirit. The song I\u2019m singing at the 4:20 minute mark is\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0c71c3;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VZoGpECn4Sk&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/4bYo1iCgGma4\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1635876525830000&amp;usg=AFQjCNFOXcanCuH20VEXjOZY9a1e3ndLRw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #0c71c3;\">\u201cAutumn Leaves\u201d<\/a><\/span>\u00a0and it features producer Cliff Goldmacher.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_video src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VZoGpECn4Sk&#038;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221;][\/et_pb_video][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Here is a 6-minute early episode of what became the \u201cWaking Up In America\u201d Show. It talks about living with an awakened mind and spirit. The song I\u2019m singing at the 4:20 minute mark is\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0c71c3;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VZoGpECn4Sk&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/4bYo1iCgGma4\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1635876525830000&amp;usg=AFQjCNFOXcanCuH20VEXjOZY9a1e3ndLRw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #0c71c3;\">\u201cAutumn Leaves\u201d<\/a><\/span>\u00a0and it features producer Cliff Goldmacher.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_video src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VZoGpECn4Sk&#038;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; width=&#8221;60%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_video][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;rgba(224,193,255,0.27)&#8221; 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[&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Well, I was going to write a different email today, but then something amazing happened yesterday: Olivia Newton-John and her daughter Chloe Lattanzi released a song, \u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d, which I co-wrote with two other songwriters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I knew it was coming (and I had to keep it secret until it was officially released), but I had no idea what would happen when it was released, and more importantly, how I would feel about it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>My Nashville friends tell me it\u2019s a big deal :) And it was a bit surreal hearing Olivia talk about the song on the TODAY show, knowing we wrote it in my piano room :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You know how it is\u2026 You show up every day and do your work. You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but pushing too hard and stressing about it will only exhaust you and you won\u2019t be at your best when an opportunity comes.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(2) Look for a window, or a crack in the wall, through which you can look to the other side.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I know it\u2019s scary. Try to entertain a thought that those on the \u2018other side\u2019 aren\u2019t monsters, but people with the same fears, same hurt, same pain as you. Trust and be willing to mend and heal\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(3) When something good happens in your life (unexpectedly) <\/strong>and you realize that it was always meant to be exactly the way it happened - not the way you envisioned, but often better - drop everything and celebrate :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>That's what I did this past weekend! 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