{"id":6533,"date":"2021-09-27T15:59:20","date_gmt":"2021-09-27T20:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=6533"},"modified":"2021-09-27T16:00:25","modified_gmt":"2021-09-27T21:00:25","slug":"one-of-a-kind-experiences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/one-of-a-kind-experiences\/","title":{"rendered":"One of a Kind Experiences"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|125px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I was sitting in a charming (and very clean) breakfast room of a\u00a0Super 8 hotel in Butte, MT.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Through the blinds of the small window I can see the mountains splashed by the golden color of Aspen trees. It\u2019s breathtaking and I wonder why they would pull the blinds down.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">There are plastic blue flowers on the carefully cleaned and neatly arranged white tables. The flowers match the covering of the white chairs. You can feel the effort made to create this beautiful space.\u00a0\u00a0But I\u2019m in\u00a0<em>Montana<\/em>\u2026 Nature heaven. Why plastic flowers?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I think about how\u00a0a few bundles of fallen twigs would be so much nicer! And if the blinds were up, the sky would match the color of the upholstered furniture. The kind and friendly housekeeper just cleaned the floors all around me, and my head hurts from harsh chemicals. My coffee smells like pumpkin spice, but has the aftertaste of high corn fructose syrup and artificial flavorings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I sigh, longing for my home-brewed tea made with herbs from my garden and sweetened with local honey.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But we are back on the road and I\u2019m happy!! After 18 long months, we are touring again! Safely and responsibly, of course.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u00a0missed the road. Not so much the road food, but I missed the change of perspective, open spaces that trigger new thoughts and ponderings, meeting people and learning over and over again what connects us all, how we are the same, and how we differ.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I&#8217;ve\u00a0missed the magic of music. I&#8217;ve missed being able to bring the magic of music to people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|3px||7px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I was sitting in a charming (and very clean) breakfast room of a\u00a0Super 8 hotel in Butte, MT.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Through the blinds of the small window I can see the mountains splashed by the golden color of Aspen trees. It\u2019s breathtaking and I wonder why they would pull the blinds down.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">There are plastic blue flowers on the carefully cleaned and neatly arranged white tables. The flowers match the covering of the white chairs. You can feel the effort made to create this beautiful space.\u00a0\u00a0But I\u2019m in\u00a0<em>Montana<\/em>\u2026 Nature heaven. Why plastic flowers?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I think about how\u00a0a few bundles of fallen twigs would be so much nicer! And if the blinds were up, the sky would match the color of the upholstered furniture. The kind and friendly housekeeper just cleaned the floors all around me, and my head hurts from harsh chemicals. My coffee smells like pumpkin spice, but has the aftertaste of high corn fructose syrup and artificial flavorings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I sigh, longing for my home-brewed tea made with herbs from my garden and sweetened with local honey.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But we are back on the road and I\u2019m happy!! After 18 long months, we are touring again! Safely and responsibly, of course.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u00a0missed the road. Not so much the road food, but I missed the change of perspective, open spaces that trigger new thoughts and ponderings, meeting people and learning over and over again what connects us all, how we are the same, and how we differ.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I&#8217;ve\u00a0missed the magic of music. I&#8217;ve missed being able to bring the magic of music to people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-9.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (9)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|122px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">At a dress-rehearsal with an audience (arranged for us by Brian, at one of the beautiful assisted living homes in Nashville, TN),\u00a0<strong>I SAW the magic<\/strong>\u00a0that music creates &#8211; that only happens when you are in the same space with your audience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As I sang,<strong>\u00a0I EXPERIENCED the energy<\/strong>\u00a0of love and healing moving from my heart around the room &#8211; like a fragrance &#8211; and enveloping each person.<strong><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>I WATCHED as they received\u00a0<\/strong>the soundwaves of our songs with their ears, but also through their sight as I locked my eyes with several of them individually. It was as if we were saying to each other:\u00a0<em>I see you, I hear your beautiful heart that sings on the inside. Thank you for being here.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>I FELT their own heart\u2019s songs<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; made from a\u00a0lifetime of moments (of laughter, tears, celebrations, goodbyes, trips and picnics and dances,\u00a0Christmases, work accomplishments, Friday evenings when they could finally relax and get a good night&#8217;s sleep, and peaceful Sunday mornings on porch swings).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When we finished, everybody wanted to shake our hands and thank us for playing music that spoke to them; songs\u00a0like\u00a0<em>&#8220;Crazy&#8221;<\/em>,<em>\u00a0\u201cOver the Rainbow\u201d<\/em>\u00a0and\u00a0<em>\u201cWhat a Wonderful World.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The event director sent us an email the next day saying how the residents didn\u2019t stop talking about it. The joy will have stayed in their hearts for a long time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I let myself feel the whole thing again, as I write these words in a room with plastic flowers. We&#8217;ve lost some of that magic; live concerts are such a rarity these days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s good that we can all sit in our homes enjoying music through technology.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But that\u2019s only a supplement to experiencing music\u00a0<em>live<\/em>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s not quite the same, but it\u2019s a bit like pulling the blinds down and replacing the Aspens with plastic flowers. Yes, it takes more effort to go gather twigs and then replace them when they get old.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Plastic flowers last forever &#8211; much like YouTube videos of songs that you can pull up any time. Going out may require more work &#8211; both the musicians who will drive 29 hours to get to Montana to do a live show, and the audience that will fill the small theatre (socially distanced still).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You can\u2019t capture it, except with your heart, but the impact of it is not just decorative or useful &#8211; it\u2019s spiritually and emotionally healing. A kind of medicine that\u2019s not available on Amazon.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Think about it for a minute. Reflect on it and let me know what your thoughts are\u00a0\ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">At a dress-rehearsal with an audience (arranged for us by Brian, at one of the beautiful assisted living homes in Nashville, TN),\u00a0<strong>I SAW the magic<\/strong>\u00a0that music creates &#8211; that only happens when you are in the same space with your audience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As I sang,<strong>\u00a0I EXPERIENCED the energy<\/strong>\u00a0of love and healing moving from my heart around the room &#8211; like a fragrance &#8211; and enveloping each person.<strong><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>I WATCHED as they received\u00a0<\/strong>the soundwaves of our songs with their ears, but also through their sight as I locked my eyes with several of them individually. It was as if we were saying to each other:\u00a0<em>I see you, I hear your beautiful heart that sings on the inside. Thank you for being here.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>I FELT their own heart\u2019s songs<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; made from a\u00a0lifetime of moments (of laughter, tears, celebrations, goodbyes, trips and picnics and dances,\u00a0Christmases, work accomplishments, Friday evenings when they could finally relax and get a good night&#8217;s sleep, and peaceful Sunday mornings on porch swings).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When we finished, everybody wanted to shake our hands and thank us for playing music that spoke to them; songs\u00a0like\u00a0<em>&#8220;Crazy&#8221;<\/em>,<em>\u00a0\u201cOver the Rainbow\u201d<\/em>\u00a0and\u00a0<em>\u201cWhat a Wonderful World.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The event director sent us an email the next day saying how the residents didn\u2019t stop talking about it. The joy will have stayed in their hearts for a long time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I let myself feel the whole thing again, as I write these words in a room with plastic flowers. We&#8217;ve lost some of that magic; live concerts are such a rarity these days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s good that we can all sit in our homes enjoying music through technology.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But that\u2019s only a supplement to experiencing music\u00a0<em>live<\/em>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s not quite the same, but it\u2019s a bit like pulling the blinds down and replacing the Aspens with plastic flowers. Yes, it takes more effort to go gather twigs and then replace them when they get old.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Plastic flowers last forever &#8211; much like YouTube videos of songs that you can pull up any time. Going out may require more work &#8211; both the musicians who will drive 29 hours to get to Montana to do a live show, and the audience that will fill the small theatre (socially distanced still).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You can\u2019t capture it, except with your heart, but the impact of it is not just decorative or useful &#8211; it\u2019s spiritually and emotionally healing. A kind of medicine that\u2019s not available on Amazon.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Think about it for a minute. Reflect on it and let me know what your thoughts are\u00a0\ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;46px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large; color: #be1e2d;\"><strong>Music<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; min_height=&#8221;61px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|125px||123px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cWhat good is sitting alone in your room, come hear the music play\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u200b<\/em>We open every concert with <a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/614252911\">this song<\/a>! It\u2019s more meaningful these days LOL<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||0px|||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cWhat good is sitting alone in your room, come hear the music play\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u200b<\/em>We open every concert with <a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/614252911\">this song<\/a>! 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but pushing too hard and stressing about it will only exhaust you and you won\u2019t be at your best when an opportunity comes.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(2) Look for a window, or a crack in the wall, through which you can look to the other side.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I know it\u2019s scary. Try to entertain a thought that those on the \u2018other side\u2019 aren\u2019t monsters, but people with the same fears, same hurt, same pain as you. Trust and be willing to mend and heal\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(3) When something good happens in your life (unexpectedly) <\/strong>and you realize that it was always meant to be exactly the way it happened - not the way you envisioned, but often better - drop everything and celebrate :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>That's what I did this past weekend! 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