{"id":5871,"date":"2021-06-07T06:32:29","date_gmt":"2021-06-07T11:32:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=5871"},"modified":"2021-06-09T13:38:26","modified_gmt":"2021-06-09T18:38:26","slug":"are-you-ready-to-renew-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/are-you-ready-to-renew-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Ready to Renew Yourself?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I was driving home from a meeting in Nashville (<em>ah those glorious in-person meetings when you are wearing a nice shirt AND dress pants and shoes, and you bring a purse and meet at a coffee shop, and the person you are talking to doesn\u2019t freeze in the middle of a really important sentence<\/em>)&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Ok. Back to my thought: I was driving home and I passed a beautiful tour bus with a trailer!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My heart skipped with excitement. It\u2019s SO GOOD to see musicians back on the road, working, making music, helping people sing along, and experience something magical. I was so happy I got a bit choked up\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I came home, I checked my phone and found a retweet of a blog I wrote in 2018. It was like an angel arranged this timing.\u00a0I read it and felt as if I had written\u00a0it for my future self as a reminder of why the world needs musicians.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t you love when the divine shows itself in \u2018little\u2019 coincidences?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So, here is the blog:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #0c71c3;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wakinguprevolution.com\/blog\/let-your-holding-it-all-together-self-die-a-little\/\" style=\"color: #0c71c3;\"><strong>Let your \u2018holding it all together\u2019 self die a little,<br \/>so you can be renewed.\u00a0<em>(April 6, 2018)<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|8px||7px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I was driving home from a meeting in Nashville (<em>ah those glorious in-person meetings when you are wearing a nice shirt AND dress pants and shoes, and you bring a purse and meet at a coffee shop, and the person you are talking to doesn\u2019t freeze in the middle of a really important sentence<\/em>)&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Ok. Back to my thought: I was driving home and I passed a beautiful tour bus with a trailer!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My heart skipped with excitement. It\u2019s SO GOOD to see musicians back on the road, working, making music, helping people sing along, and experience something magical. I was so happy I got a bit choked up\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I came home, I checked my phone and found a retweet of a blog I wrote in 2018. It was like an angel arranged this timing.\u00a0I read it and felt as if I had written\u00a0it for my future self as a reminder of why the world needs musicians.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t you love when the divine shows itself in \u2018little\u2019 coincidences?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So, here is the blog:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #0c71c3;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wakinguprevolution.com\/blog\/let-your-holding-it-all-together-self-die-a-little\/\" style=\"color: #0c71c3;\"><strong>Let your \u2018holding it all together\u2019 self die a little,<br \/>so you can be renewed.\u00a0<em>(April 6, 2018)<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/2021-Blog-SM-posts-1.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2021 Blog SM posts (1)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;55%&#8221; box_shadow_style=&#8221;preset1&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I love leaving Nashville with the rest of the \u2018gigging\u2019 and touring musicians \u2013 some of us (like me) driving alone in our small cars filled to the top with gear and merchandise and our performing clothes; some in tour vans; and others still, in their big star coaches. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We pass each other on the road, we recognize each other at the gas stations and breakfast stops\u2026 we share the same bitter-sweet experience of the road life \u2013 always feeling sad for leaving those we love behind and looking forward to doing what we love to do \u2013 making beautiful music, touching people\u2019s hearts and hopefully, changing their lives a little bit for the better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s like dying a little bit each time and growing into a new life \u2013 letting go of what\u2019s safe and comfortable, and accepting the uncertainty and the challenge of the road ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We give our all, we bare our soul, willing to feel and express what we feel through our music, so that others can tap into their own feelings and let them go too\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And on Monday mornings when most people are getting ready for work, we come home tired but satisfied. We quietly unpack our travel bags and process our experiences. Unglamorous and unfiltered, we slip into our roles as parents, spouses, neighbors and friends\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I once did a presentation for the Music Honors Society Club.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I spoke to the teenagers about the importance of music education (and music theory!), and why it\u2019s crucial that they know WHY they want to pursue a music career (because the sense of purpose will get them through tough times and help them persevere.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">These were all Honors Students, smart and serious and responsible. Almost a bit too mature for their age. I could tell they were all a bit tired from the stresses of all that\u2019s been going on\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|16px||6px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I love leaving Nashville with the rest of the \u2018gigging\u2019 and touring musicians \u2013 some of us (like me) driving alone in our small cars filled to the top with gear and merchandise and our performing clothes; some in tour vans; and others still, in their big star coaches. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We pass each other on the road, we recognize each other at the gas stations and breakfast stops\u2026 we share the same bitter-sweet experience of the road life \u2013 always feeling sad for leaving those we love behind and looking forward to doing what we love to do \u2013 making beautiful music, touching people\u2019s hearts and hopefully, changing their lives a little bit for the better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s like dying a little bit each time and growing into a new life \u2013 letting go of what\u2019s safe and comfortable, and accepting the uncertainty and the challenge of the road ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We give our all, we bare our soul, willing to feel and express what we feel through our music, so that others can tap into their own feelings and let them go too\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And on Monday mornings when most people are getting ready for work, we come home tired but satisfied. We quietly unpack our travel bags and process our experiences. Unglamorous and unfiltered, we slip into our roles as parents, spouses, neighbors and friends\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I once did a presentation for the Music Honors Society Club.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: large;\">I spoke to the teenagers about the importance of music education (and music theory!), and why it\u2019s crucial that they know WHY they want to pursue a music career (because the sense of purpose will get them through tough times and help them persevere.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">These were all Honors Students, smart and serious and responsible. Almost a bit too mature for their age. I could tell they were all a bit tired from the stresses of all that\u2019s been going on\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-3.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (3)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">At the end of my talk, one student asked me to sing a song. She said, \u2018one you like to sing the most.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I looked at them and their teachers and thought to myself \u2018why not!\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I sang \u201cThose Were the Days\u201d \u2013 just like I sing it at our family parties and in my less formal concerts and gigs. Several of them started to tap their foot during the fun \u201cna na na na na na\u201d part, and at the end, when I invited them to sing with me, they all let their voices out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Their faces stretched into smiles, their eyes widened with that inner (still child-like) joy and they sang\u2026 for a moment, at least a little bit of the emotional turmoil they are going through, was released\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It was such an incredible moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Several kids thanked me and said how wonderful that felt. \u201cIt\u2019s so good to express our feelings through music,\u201d said one girl to me\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What is your favorite song that you can sing \u2013 and express your feelings through?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Put it on, turn the volume up and sing along (or play it yourself if you are an instrumentalist.) Let tears come. Or laughter. Or all of it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Let go of your comfortable, safe place, and let some of your \u2018holding it together\u2019 self die a little. And then let the music bring you the grace and love you need to be renewed.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; min_height=&#8221;49px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">At the end of my talk, one student asked me to sing a song. 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Several of them started to tap their foot during the fun \u201cna na na na na na\u201d part, and at the end, when I invited them to sing with me, they all let their voices out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Their faces stretched into smiles, their eyes widened with that inner (still child-like) joy and they sang\u2026 for a moment, at least a little bit of the emotional turmoil they are going through, was released\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It was such an incredible moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Several kids thanked me and said how wonderful that felt. \u201cIt\u2019s so good to express our feelings through music,\u201d said one girl to me\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What is your favorite song that you can sing \u2013 and express your feelings through?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Put it on, turn the volume up and sing along (or play it yourself if you are an instrumentalist.) 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. I know it\u2019s easier said than done, but pushing too hard and stressing about it will only exhaust you and you won\u2019t be at your best when an opportunity comes.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(2) Look for a window, or a crack in the wall, through which you can look to the other side.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I know it\u2019s scary. Try to entertain a thought that those on the \u2018other side\u2019 aren\u2019t monsters, but people with the same fears, same hurt, same pain as you. Trust and be willing to mend and heal\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(3) When something good happens in your life (unexpectedly) <\/strong>and you realize that it was always meant to be exactly the way it happened - not the way you envisioned, but often better - drop everything and celebrate :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>That's what I did this past weekend! 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