{"id":5644,"date":"2021-05-10T14:06:16","date_gmt":"2021-05-10T19:06:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=5644"},"modified":"2021-05-11T05:50:08","modified_gmt":"2021-05-11T10:50:08","slug":"motherhood-is-a-gift-and-an-honor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/motherhood-is-a-gift-and-an-honor\/","title":{"rendered":"Motherhood Is a Gift and An Honor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I always text my kids before I take off on a plane with a\u00a0quick \u201cI love you.\u201d I wait until\u00a0they send me heart\u00a0or kiss\u00a0emojis or an &#8220;I love you too,&#8221; and then I put my phone into airplane mode.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And no matter how much I tell myself that all will be well, my stomach tightness, my chest feels heavy, and the tip of my nose tickles, warning that tears are coming up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s a little uncomfortable being out of reach for a while. Maybe it\u2019s because I\u2019m used to the convenience of cell phones and texts, but I think it\u2019s more about being a mom.\u00a0As the plane lifts off, I say a little prayer for safety and for God to bring me home to my kids\u00a0after I do my job.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Inevitably, I feel a bit at odds with myself\u2026 I love singing,\u00a0speaking, and performing too much to quit. I love being a mom. And doing both is sometimes painful. (The year before the Pandemic I was on an amazing tour and I missed every band performance my kids were in!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Last week, I got an email from Croatian Records asking me to film a short video about motherhood &#8211; adding how they picked women who had successful careers and were engaged mothers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/exJvrqzkcXa4\/we7x\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/exJvrqzkcXa4\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1620759134449000&amp;usg=AFQjCNET0ScWhORPpCpw1E4WV5pOpF4BhQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #000000;\">Here is what I said<\/a>:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cMotherhood is a gift and an honor. As mothers, we get to participate in creating lives &#8211; not just by birthing our children into the world, but more so through our guidance, our presence, support, love, through giving them all they need to grow into the people they were created to be. So following our own paths, being passionate about the work we do &#8211; and how it benefits other people &#8211; becomes a beautiful example for them to not be afraid to be who they are, and to experience how following their dreams gives them a sense of fulfillment and purpose.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|8px||7px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I always text my kids before I take off on a plane with a\u00a0quick \u201cI love you.\u201d I wait until\u00a0they send me heart\u00a0or kiss\u00a0emojis or an &#8220;I love you too,&#8221; and then I put my phone into airplane mode.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And no matter how much I tell myself that all will be well, my stomach tightness, my chest feels heavy, and the tip of my nose tickles, warning that tears are coming up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s a little uncomfortable being out of reach for a while. Maybe it\u2019s because I\u2019m used to the convenience of cell phones and texts, but I think it\u2019s more about being a mom.\u00a0As the plane lifts off, I say a little prayer for safety and for God to bring me home to my kids\u00a0after I do my job.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Inevitably, I feel a bit at odds with myself\u2026 I love singing,\u00a0speaking, and performing too much to quit. I love being a mom. And doing both is sometimes painful. (The year before the Pandemic I was on an amazing tour and I missed every band performance my kids were in!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Last week, I got an email from Croatian Records asking me to film a short video about motherhood &#8211; adding how they picked women who had successful careers and were engaged mothers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/exJvrqzkcXa4\/we7x\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/exJvrqzkcXa4\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1620759134449000&amp;usg=AFQjCNET0ScWhORPpCpw1E4WV5pOpF4BhQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #000000;\">Here is what I said<\/a>:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><em>\u201cMotherhood is a gift and an honor. As mothers, we get to participate in creating lives &#8211; not just by birthing our children into the world, but more so through our guidance, our presence, support, love, through giving them all they need to grow into the people they were created to be. So following our own paths, being passionate about the work we do &#8211; and how it benefits other people &#8211; becomes a beautiful example for them to not be afraid to be who they are, and to experience how following their dreams gives them a sense of fulfillment and purpose.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-1.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (1)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Speaking of work, I was in Phoenix, AZ doing a gig! It was a Mother\u2019s Day event and I got to sing and speak.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I walked through the Nashville airport with my guitar on my back. The TSA agent joked that there has been a special \u2018musicians tax\u2019 added since the last time I flew. Perhaps because there will be so many musicians traveling now when the world opens back up LOL &#8211; we will be like puppies being let out of a crate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I passed by a restaurant with live music and said a prayer for a jar full of tips.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A few feet further, I noticed the sunlight coming through the glass roof and I looked up. There was an art installment of beautiful colorful umbrellas. It made me pause and take a breath and smile&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I sat down at my gate\u00a0and sent a picture of the umbrellas to my son, who loves public art installments. I told him how the art made me feel happy and uplifted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Art makes us stop. We admire it and enjoy it.\u00a0And in doing so our\u00a0heart is touched. Perhaps you smile, or you wonder about its creation or the artist. You definitely interrupt your thoughts for a moment (perhaps you were worrying about the flight, or being stressed about something at work) and it gives you a chance to think about something more relaxing. You slow down your breathing, your heart opens a bit wider, and you experience your journey with more presence of mind and spirit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Isn\u2019t that amazing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Since mother\u2019s day is tomorrow, I want to wish all of you mothers a happy day &#8211; and those of you who aren\u2019t mothers, I wish you a happy day as you celebrate the woman who gave you birth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0And,\u00a0we can all &#8216;give birth&#8217; to more peace, love, kindness, and compassion&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|16px||6px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Speaking of work, I was in Phoenix, AZ doing a gig! It was a Mother\u2019s Day event and I got to sing and speak.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I walked through the Nashville airport with my guitar on my back. The TSA agent joked that there has been a special \u2018musicians tax\u2019 added since the last time I flew. Perhaps because there will be so many musicians traveling now when the world opens back up LOL &#8211; we will be like puppies being let out of a crate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I passed by a restaurant with live music and said a prayer for a jar full of tips.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A few feet further, I noticed the sunlight coming through the glass roof and I looked up. There was an art installment of beautiful colorful umbrellas. It made me pause and take a breath and smile&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I sat down at my gate\u00a0and sent a picture of the umbrellas to my son, who loves public art installments. I told him how the art made me feel happy and uplifted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Art makes us stop. We admire it and enjoy it.\u00a0And in doing so our\u00a0heart is touched. Perhaps you smile, or you wonder about its creation or the artist. You definitely interrupt your thoughts for a moment (perhaps you were worrying about the flight, or being stressed about something at work) and it gives you a chance to think about something more relaxing. You slow down your breathing, your heart opens a bit wider, and you experience your journey with more presence of mind and spirit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Isn\u2019t that amazing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Since mother\u2019s day is tomorrow, I want to wish all of you mothers a happy day &#8211; and those of you who aren\u2019t mothers, I wish you a happy day as you celebrate the woman who gave you birth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0And,\u00a0we can all &#8216;give birth&#8217; to more peace, love, kindness, and compassion&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/2021-Blog-SM-posts.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2021 Blog SM posts&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;55%&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: large;\">Finally, as a mother, I\u2019m going to share another poem by my son Blais \ud83d\ude42 It\u2019s about a piece of art that I ended up painting (the original idea was to have my three sons &#8211; who were 10,8, and 5 at the time &#8211; paint it, but they all painted a single star and lost interest LOL)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0Starry Night<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Starry night, over the<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">hills, I am mourning my youth,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">watching comets fall.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And my family painting all together<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As a child amazed by\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The beauty of the brush<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So many stars\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So quaint and lush<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Oh youth, taking advantage of\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My family all together\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Thinking\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This would last forever and ever<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Mom painting day and night\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Asking if we would not just stare<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Until I took the brush and<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Painted her hair<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Oh starry night\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I&#8217;m sorry for my mistakes<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I just wish I had<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My family in one place\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0\u00a0-Blais, Grade 10<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|16px||6px|false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: large;\">Finally, as a mother, I\u2019m going to share another poem by my son Blais \ud83d\ude42 It\u2019s about a piece of art that I ended up painting (the original idea was to have my three sons &#8211; who were 10,8, and 5 at the time &#8211; paint it, but they all painted a single star and lost interest LOL)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0Starry Night<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Starry night, over the<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">hills, I am mourning my youth,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">watching comets fall.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And my family painting all together<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As a child amazed by\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The beauty of the brush<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So many stars\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So quaint and lush<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Oh youth, taking advantage of\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My family all together\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Thinking\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This would last forever and ever<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Mom painting day and night\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Asking if we would not just stare<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Until I took the brush and<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Painted her hair<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Oh starry night\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I&#8217;m sorry for my mistakes<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I just wish I had<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My family in one place\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u00a0\u00a0-Blais, Grade 10<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;20px||||false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #be1e2d;\"><em>Music<\/em><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The feeling of separation between a mother and a child works both ways.\u00a0 Here is the song I wrote one year after I dropped my mother off at the airport and watched her disappear through security.\u00a0She lives in Croatia so we&#8217;re\u00a0an Ocean apart, and I just miss the little every-day things we don\u2019t get to do together.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A friend of mine put this video together so that I can\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=WTu0_V1j0So&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\">share this song<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/EQkARH7odFlF\/we7x\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/EQkARH7odFlF\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1620759134449000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEQ_Oj9LiglN1c2GWIyoKbsGOEfhA\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/a>with you:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2.4em&#8221; min_height=&#8221;49px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The feeling of separation between a mother and a child works both ways.\u00a0 Here is the song I wrote one year after I dropped my mother off at the airport and watched her disappear through security.\u00a0She lives in Croatia so we&#8217;re\u00a0an Ocean apart, and I just miss the little every-day things we don\u2019t get to do together.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A friend of mine put this video together so that I can\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=WTu0_V1j0So&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/EQkARH7odFlF\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1620759134449000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEQ_Oj9LiglN1c2GWIyoKbsGOEfhA\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #0c71c3;\">share this song<\/span>\u00a0<\/a>with you:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_video src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=WTu0_V1j0So&#038;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron&#8221; 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. 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Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. 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Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. 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