{"id":5121,"date":"2021-03-08T13:28:32","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T19:28:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=5121"},"modified":"2021-03-08T13:30:57","modified_gmt":"2021-03-08T19:30:57","slug":"writing-can-release-stress-and-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/writing-can-release-stress-and-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"Writing Can Release Stress and Emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; min_height=&#8221;2208px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-55px|auto||auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|0px||||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How are you today? The sun was out this past week, the maple tree in my backyard is covered with tiny purple buds, and the daffodils in the front of my house are ready to bloom! Life is good \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You know how sometimes you keep hearing the same message everywhere you go? It shows up in your newsfeed, your neighbor says it, it\u2019s in the book you are reading\u2026 and so you pay attention to it. LOL<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For me, this past week, it was all about\u00a0<strong>writing<\/strong>. Writing can be healing.\u00a0It\u2019s used in therapy, it\u2019s great to release stress and emotions, it gives your brain a chance to \u2018dump\u2019 useless information, organize thoughts, envision and plan, create and express yourself without any special equipment. Just a pen and paper (or a computer).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Do you write? Journal? Write cards and letters to share with others?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When you post on social media, what kind of posts do you create? Humorous? Educational? Inspirational?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|3px||3px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How are you today? The sun was out this past week, the maple tree in my backyard is covered with tiny purple buds, and the daffodils in the front of my house are ready to bloom! Life is good \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You know how sometimes you keep hearing the same message everywhere you go? It shows up in your newsfeed, your neighbor says it, it\u2019s in the book you are reading\u2026 and so you pay attention to it. LOL<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For me, this past week, it was all about\u00a0<strong>writing<\/strong>. Writing can be healing.\u00a0It\u2019s used in therapy, it\u2019s great to release stress and emotions, it gives your brain a chance to \u2018dump\u2019 useless information, organize thoughts, envision and plan, create and express yourself without any special equipment. Just a pen and paper (or a computer).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Do you write? Journal? Write cards and letters to share with others?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When you post on social media, what kind of posts do you create? Humorous? Educational? Inspirational?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-1.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (1)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;72%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As I am writing this to you, I am in awe of this process that connects us &#8211; writing and sharing.\u00a0Sometimes expressing deep vulnerable things, and other times sharing useful things we learned. How humbling and awesome it is that we can create experiences and share our intentions and affect each other through words\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And then this came to me:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>An Invitation<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Actually, wait.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t close your eyes. Keep reading \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Take another breath. Slow or deep, or fast or shallow. Take notice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The space is there for you to breathe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But you can also scroll down fast.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s up to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Because, I typed these words for you,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">but now they are yours to ponder.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">They are thoughts that floated through silence and\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">landed on my mind like seeds of a dandelion\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(making me feel excited about the warm weather and green grass and a field full of wildflowers).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">They are 0\u2019s and 1\u2019s scrambled up, transformed into invisible waves,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">received and unscrambled and somehow placed into your device for you to\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">read in the same order as I wrote them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The thoughts came to me,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I observed them, let many pass by\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(I get easily distracted, so I blew on some to help them fly away),<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and picked out those that matched my\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">intention and desire\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to connect with you and\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">experience something good:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">connection, wonder, Grace, comfort, hope, peace, what else?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u2019m going to ask you a question.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You can skip it, or consider it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s up to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As you read, do you hear your voice reading them?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Or someone else\u2019s?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Do you hear another voice telling you there are more important things\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to do right now than read this?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(The space is there for you to listen)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Take another breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Instead of the voice reading, can you<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">hear the air flowing through your nose,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">filling up your lungs, expanding your chest and then,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">like a summer breeze gently moving through you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And while you focus on the breath,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">does the voice quiet down?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I follow my breath like I\u2019d follow a small ray of light\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">looking for the path<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">leading to a place where the voices in my head<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">quiet down<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">where I am able to just be<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">at peace<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">present<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">still.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This is where I wanted to invite you to come.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s not my place<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s completely yours<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I can\u2019t go there with you,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and yet, in that place we are all connected to each other<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and to everything else<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">without labeling it, judging it, knowing it\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And from this place we emerge peaceful\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and less stressed out<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">grateful\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">less worried about the future<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">content to be where we are now.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Empowered to think the thoughts creative and life-giving<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to let go of the ones that make us angry and resentful<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and watch them float away like the seeds of dandelions on a warm sunny day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Now\u2026 close your eyes and breathe<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As I am writing this to you, I am in awe of this process that connects us &#8211; writing and sharing.\u00a0Sometimes expressing deep vulnerable things, and other times sharing useful things we learned. How humbling and awesome it is that we can create experiences and share our intentions and affect each other through words\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And then this came to me:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>An Invitation<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Actually, wait.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t close your eyes. Keep reading \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Take another breath. Slow or deep, or fast or shallow. Take notice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The space is there for you to breathe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But you can also scroll down fast.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s up to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Because, I typed these words for you,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">but now they are yours to ponder.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">They are thoughts that floated through silence and\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">landed on my mind like seeds of a dandelion\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(making me feel excited about the warm weather and green grass and a field full of wildflowers).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">They are 0\u2019s and 1\u2019s scrambled up, transformed into invisible waves,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">received and unscrambled and somehow placed into your device for you to\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">read in the same order as I wrote them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The thoughts came to me,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I observed them, let many pass by\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(I get easily distracted, so I blew on some to help them fly away),<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and picked out those that matched my\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">intention and desire\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to connect with you and\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">experience something good:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">connection, wonder, Grace, comfort, hope, peace, what else?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I\u2019m going to ask you a question.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You can skip it, or consider it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s up to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">As you read, do you hear your voice reading them?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Or someone else\u2019s?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Do you hear another voice telling you there are more important things\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to do right now than read this?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">(The space is there for you to listen)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Take another breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Instead of the voice reading, can you<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">hear the air flowing through your nose,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">filling up your lungs, expanding your chest and then,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">like a summer breeze gently moving through you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And while you focus on the breath,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">does the voice quiet down?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I follow my breath like I\u2019d follow a small ray of light\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">looking for the path<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">leading to a place where the voices in my head<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">quiet down<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">where I am able to just be<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">at peace<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">present<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">still.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">This is where I wanted to invite you to come.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s not my place<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s completely yours<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I can\u2019t go there with you,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and yet, in that place we are all connected to each other<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and to everything else<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">without labeling it, judging it, knowing it\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And from this place we emerge peaceful\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">and less stressed out<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">grateful\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">less worried about the future<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">content to be where we are now.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Empowered to think the thoughts creative and life-giving<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">to let go of the ones that make us angry and resentful<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; 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The sun was out this past week, the maple tree in my backyard is covered with tiny purple buds, and the daffodils in the front of my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5126,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Well, I was going to write a different email today, but then something amazing happened yesterday: Olivia Newton-John and her daughter Chloe Lattanzi released a song, \u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d, which I co-wrote with two other songwriters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I knew it was coming (and I had to keep it secret until it was officially released), but I had no idea what would happen when it was released, and more importantly, how I would feel about it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>My Nashville friends tell me it\u2019s a big deal :) And it was a bit surreal hearing Olivia talk about the song on the TODAY show, knowing we wrote it in my piano room :)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You know how it is\u2026 You show up every day and do your work. You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. 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Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. 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