{"id":5103,"date":"2021-03-01T12:06:57","date_gmt":"2021-03-01T18:06:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=5103"},"modified":"2021-03-02T07:15:24","modified_gmt":"2021-03-02T13:15:24","slug":"you-should-keep-showing-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/you-should-keep-showing-up\/","title":{"rendered":"You Should Keep Showing Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; min_height=&#8221;2208px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-55px|auto||auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|0px||||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A friend of mine sent me a newspaper article about a guitar tech who was working on major artists\u2019 tours for many decades making a nice income, and was now struggling to pay his mortgage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The article wasn\u2019t news to me. It pointed out that globally, some 18 million music industry people are out of jobs. But there was a quote I couldn\u2019t take off of my mind all week:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cThe music industry, we\u2019re not just out of work. We\u2019re washed off the face of the planet at this point.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Musicians are resilient, I thought. We\u2019ve driven through bad storms a hundred times. We had been told that the show must go on when we first signed up for the job, and we imprinted it into our minds and our hearts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And this isn&#8217;t just musicians themselves, but also those setting up the stage, running the sound or the lights, ushering people to their seats, checking tickets, driving tour buses, or running the administrative and legal side of business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So when the show stops, what happens? What goes on then?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We keep creating music.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The show becomes us. WE must go on and come up with other solutions, be creative, sing from the balconies, our porches, or in front of our computers\u2019 tiny camera lenses streaming to all kinds of old and new platforms. We simply don\u2019t let ourselves \u201cbe washed off of the face of the planet.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The same day I read the article, I drove up to Nashville for some meetings, and stopped by a restaurant that was giving out gourmet meals to the music professionals &#8211; organized by the Country Music Association and Touring Professionals Alliance. I spoke to a guy who was a sound engineer for tours. He volunteers as much as he can, because being of service keeps him feel less isolated and helps him stay hopeful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We are resilient. We\u2019ll get through it by taking care of each other and we won\u2019t quit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|3px||3px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">A friend of mine sent me a newspaper article about a guitar tech who was working on major artists\u2019 tours for many decades making a nice income, and was now struggling to pay his mortgage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The article wasn\u2019t news to me. It pointed out that globally, some 18 million music industry people are out of jobs. But there was a quote I couldn\u2019t take off of my mind all week:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">\u201cThe music industry, we\u2019re not just out of work. We\u2019re washed off the face of the planet at this point.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Musicians are resilient, I thought. We\u2019ve driven through bad storms a hundred times. We had been told that the show must go on when we first signed up for the job, and we imprinted it into our minds and our hearts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">And this isn&#8217;t just musicians themselves, but also those setting up the stage, running the sound or the lights, ushering people to their seats, checking tickets, driving tour buses, or running the administrative and legal side of business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So when the show stops, what happens? What goes on then?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We keep creating music.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The show becomes us. WE must go on and come up with other solutions, be creative, sing from the balconies, our porches, or in front of our computers\u2019 tiny camera lenses streaming to all kinds of old and new platforms. We simply don\u2019t let ourselves \u201cbe washed off of the face of the planet.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The same day I read the article, I drove up to Nashville for some meetings, and stopped by a restaurant that was giving out gourmet meals to the music professionals &#8211; organized by the Country Music Association and Touring Professionals Alliance. I spoke to a guy who was a sound engineer for tours. He volunteers as much as he can, because being of service keeps him feel less isolated and helps him stay hopeful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We are resilient. We\u2019ll get through it by taking care of each other and we won\u2019t quit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-9-1024&#215;390.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (9)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;72%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I came back home that evening, I touched up my makeup and performed a live streaming concert. I wasn\u2019t wearing shoes, at one point I left my place in front of the camera to make some Peppermint tea, and at the end of each song, I clapped for David and me and connected with the audience by reading their comments out loud. I looked straight into the camera to respond and thank them for being there. We are resilient.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The show is going on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When my concert was over, I sat in my comfortable chair with my dog snuggled next to me, and I looked around my music room. It was filled with sound equipment and lights and stuff that would have, in normal times, been already packed in cases and loaded up in the back of my car. I\u2019d be driving off into the night to my next gig (without a dog LOL).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So you see, the show itself isn\u2019t the show that must go on.\u00a0<strong>The show is us.<\/strong>\u00a0We keep showing up and we keep going through thick and thin. We go through\u00a0all the changes and transformations that are thrown at us &#8211; changes\u00a0that we resist\u00a0but that are an inevitable part of our lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Dwelling in sadness that we lost the gigs, being angry and caught up in the blame game, wasting energy on wishing things were different only makes us get stuck in a bad place. It stifles our creativity to do something constructive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>On the other hand, when we can feel the sadness, honor the grief for what we lost, and then we let it pass, we are able to move forward\u2026<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We take a breath, give ourselves a bit of time and space to find new solutions and possibilities, and then make the next best action. We create new ways &#8211; a new stage for our show \ud83d\ude42 Yes, it takes patience, trust, compassion, and gentleness with ourselves.\u00a0But when we work together, or at least when we know we are not alone, the process becomes easier.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The stress and the pressure lift off, opening up the space for our creativity, love, and grace to build and heal. And we practice resilience and become even more resilient. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Of course, this is not specific to musicians and touring crews. I\u2019m sure you have gone through a change yourself this past year and figured out how to make your own life\u2019s \u201cshow\u201d go on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Can you reflect on that this week?<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What is your first reaction to a big change?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How do you get unstuck from the disappointment and resistance to change?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How does it feel to be on the other side of something challenging?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I came back home that evening, I touched up my makeup and performed a live streaming concert. I wasn\u2019t wearing shoes, at one point I left my place in front of the camera to make some Peppermint tea, and at the end of each song, I clapped for David and me and connected with the audience by reading their comments out loud. I looked straight into the camera to respond and thank them for being there. We are resilient.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The show is going on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When my concert was over, I sat in my comfortable chair with my dog snuggled next to me, and I looked around my music room. It was filled with sound equipment and lights and stuff that would have, in normal times, been already packed in cases and loaded up in the back of my car. I\u2019d be driving off into the night to my next gig (without a dog LOL).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">So you see, the show itself isn\u2019t the show that must go on.\u00a0<strong>The show is us.<\/strong>\u00a0We keep showing up and we keep going through thick and thin. We go through\u00a0all the changes and transformations that are thrown at us &#8211; changes\u00a0that we resist\u00a0but that are an inevitable part of our lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Dwelling in sadness that we lost the gigs, being angry and caught up in the blame game, wasting energy on wishing things were different only makes us get stuck in a bad place. It stifles our creativity to do something constructive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>On the other hand, when we can feel the sadness, honor the grief for what we lost, and then we let it pass, we are able to move forward\u2026<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">We take a breath, give ourselves a bit of time and space to find new solutions and possibilities, and then make the next best action. We create new ways &#8211; a new stage for our show \ud83d\ude42 Yes, it takes patience, trust, compassion, and gentleness with ourselves.\u00a0But when we work together, or at least when we know we are not alone, the process becomes easier.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The stress and the pressure lift off, opening up the space for our creativity, love, and grace to build and heal. And we practice resilience and become even more resilient. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Of course, this is not specific to musicians and touring crews. I\u2019m sure you have gone through a change yourself this past year and figured out how to make your own life\u2019s \u201cshow\u201d go on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Can you reflect on that this week?<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">What is your first reaction to a big change?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How do you get unstuck from the disappointment and resistance to change?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">How does it feel to be on the other side of something challenging?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|auto|-40px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||20px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Feb-Blog-Post-2-1024&#215;1024.png&#8221; 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color: #000000;\">Here is that beautiful\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0c71c3;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9-ckh5KzoGQ&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/tatianacameron.krtra.com\/c\/rkqLIQoSPplF\/we7x&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1614703369590000&amp;usg=AFQjCNHMN68HZSXXzrIkuc_Rd_ThlTOrIw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" style=\"color: #0c71c3;\">song by Glen Campbell<\/a>:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Kindness and gratitude make it a lot easier to get through life\u2019s challenges, don\u2019t you agree?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Here is that beautiful\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9-ckh5KzoGQ&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\">song by Glen Campbell:<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_video src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9-ckh5KzoGQ&#038;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron&#8221; 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. And that means my job is to make people feel welcomed, valued, seen, and heard.\u201d<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>When he came home from his first day of work, he was glowing! He had been corralling shopping carts and bagging groceries for six hours, but he didn\u2019t even mention that. ALL he experienced was interacting with customers. He felt incredibly accomplished because he told me, he got to talk to people, ask them how their day went, and make them feel good. He brought me a bunch of roses because he said he was moved by someone who was buying roses for their mother.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>THIS was a life-defining moment for him. Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. 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