{"id":4922,"date":"2021-02-08T06:05:33","date_gmt":"2021-02-08T12:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/?p=4922"},"modified":"2021-02-17T09:25:09","modified_gmt":"2021-02-17T15:25:09","slug":"how-to-create-an-aligned-movement-routine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/dev\/how-to-create-an-aligned-movement-routine\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Create an Aligned Movement Routine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; min_height=&#8221;2208px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-55px|auto||auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|0px||||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||124px||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Last week, I wrote about how staying engaged helps us feel motivated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When it comes to getting things done &#8211; starting new projects, breaking down huge goals and accomplishing one step at a time, working on this and that, writing books, music, gardening, cooking elaborate dishes from scratch, etc &#8211; I can easily get engaged and motivated with the tips I shared with you last week.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The same tips also work for staying motivated when it comes to spiritual, emotional, and mental self-growth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But when it comes to exercising\u2026 I look the other way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I disengage. I WANT to be active, I WANT to be healthy, and I always wondered why I had such a hard time staying motivated. Without being engaged with it, I\u2019d soon drop my exercise goals\/ plan, even though I knew how beneficial it was for me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The failure to keep going would then make me feel awful about myself and even more discouraged.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Well, I just learned (in my coaching training) that it\u2019s not my fault. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The way we are put together naturally affects what physical activity is best for us. And not just for our bodies, but what\u2019s best for our minds and spirits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You might think that\u2019s really obvious, and you are right. I might be a late bloomer, LOL and I\u2019m totally willing to come out as completely clueless in hopes that it might help someone else who\u2019s been guilted and shamed for not enjoying a wrong kind of exercise!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I had worked with several wellness coaches who would advise me to \u2018pick up a physical activity that was exciting for me&#8217;. But then, posts like \u2018if I can run a 5k, so can you\u2019 would make me feel like I was the laziest, most unmotivated person out there. I&#8217;d feel discouraged from doing anything at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My best friend in Croatia is different and running is her happy place. She also skis, snowboards, and surfs. Not me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My body, mind, and spirit benefit from different kinds of physical activity, like swimming in a warm pool or doing yoga indoors. I like the slow and long movements of ballet dancing and tennis, because I can enjoy the slow repetitive relays and also strengthen my heart by running after those pesky curved balls. It\u2019s not a competition between us, it\u2019s wellbeing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So how do we find what physical activity is good for us?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I can\u2019t go into details of all I\u2019m learning (it would be a very long email, lol) but it seems to me it\u2019s all based on <strong>self-awareness, mindful observation of your thoughts and emotions, and working with your mind+body+spirit<\/strong> (as opposed to against it).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For example, in the training, the physical activity is not called \u2018exercise\u2019 but \u2018movement.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|3px||3px||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Last week, I wrote about how staying engaged helps us feel motivated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When it comes to getting things done &#8211; starting new projects, breaking down huge goals and accomplishing one step at a time, working on this and that, writing books, music, gardening, cooking elaborate dishes from scratch, etc &#8211; I can easily get engaged and motivated with the tips I shared with you last week.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The same tips also work for staying motivated when it comes to spiritual, emotional, and mental self-growth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">But when it comes to exercising\u2026 I look the other way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I disengage. I WANT to be active, I WANT to be healthy, and I always wondered why I had such a hard time staying motivated. Without being engaged with it, I\u2019d soon drop my exercise goals\/ plan, even though I knew how beneficial it was for me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The failure to keep going would then make me feel awful about myself and even more discouraged.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Well, I just learned (in my coaching training) that it\u2019s not my fault. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The way we are put together naturally affects what physical activity is best for us. And not just for our bodies, but what\u2019s best for our minds and spirits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">You might think that\u2019s really obvious, and you are right. I might be a late bloomer, LOL and I\u2019m totally willing to come out as completely clueless in hopes that it might help someone else who\u2019s been guilted and shamed for not enjoying a wrong kind of exercise!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I had worked with several wellness coaches who would advise me to \u2018pick up a physical activity that was exciting for me&#8217;. But then, posts like \u2018if I can run a 5k, so can you\u2019 would make me feel like I was the laziest, most unmotivated person out there. I&#8217;d feel discouraged from doing anything at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My best friend in Croatia is different and running is her happy place. She also skis, snowboards, and surfs. Not me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">My body, mind, and spirit benefit from different kinds of physical activity, like swimming in a warm pool or doing yoga indoors. I like the slow and long movements of ballet dancing and tennis, because I can enjoy the slow repetitive relays and also strengthen my heart by running after those pesky curved balls. It\u2019s not a competition between us, it\u2019s wellbeing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So how do we find what physical activity is good for us?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I can\u2019t go into details of all I\u2019m learning (it would be a very long email, lol) but it seems to me it\u2019s all based on <strong>self-awareness, mindful observation of your thoughts and emotions, and working with your mind+body+spirit<\/strong> (as opposed to against it).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">For example, in the training, the physical activity is not called \u2018exercise\u2019 but \u2018movement.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/FINAL_Blog-Banner-TC.com-3-1024&#215;390.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;FINAL_Blog Banner TC.com (3)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;70%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;100%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||123px||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I think of exercise, I immediately think of hard work. When I think of movement, I think of dancing and lightness. And feeling good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u201cMovement\u201d<\/strong> engages my mind with images that engage my spirit and spark the excitement needed to engage &#8211; and motivate me to move my body (I\u2019ll let you know my progress with this\u2026 as now I have no excuses for not practicing movement, LOL).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">If you are willing, do this little experiment:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Find a comfortable seat, close your eyes<\/strong> and think of those two words &#8211; exercise and movement &#8211; and observe what comes up for you. Which one stirs your motivation to get up and move your body and add to your wellbeing?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Then observe what thoughts<\/strong> of physical activities spark joy, trigger motivation and a sense of lightness, and which ones trigger feelings of heaviness and stress.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Start doing whatever exercise or movement engages your mind, body and spirit.<\/strong> It can be just a few minutes daily if you haven\u2019t done anything for a while. Eventually, you want to have something that contains all four groups: cardio, strengthening, flexibility, and detox. I walk for cardio and detox (break a sweat) and do yoga or ballet warm ups for strengthening and flexibility.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Movement will activate your digestion and help your body to get rid of toxins. It will clear your mind. And, it just might make you feel less depressed and less anxious (mindful movement does that!)&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2.5em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|15px||11px||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">When I think of exercise, I immediately think of hard work. When I think of movement, I think of dancing and lightness. And feeling good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>\u201cMovement\u201d<\/strong> engages my mind with images that engage my spirit and spark the excitement needed to engage &#8211; and motivate me to move my body (I\u2019ll let you know my progress with this\u2026 as now I have no excuses for not practicing movement, LOL).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">If you are willing, do this little experiment:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Find a comfortable seat, close your eyes<\/strong> and think of those two words &#8211; exercise and movement &#8211; and observe what comes up for you. Which one stirs your motivation to get up and move your body and add to your wellbeing?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Then observe what thoughts<\/strong> of physical activities spark joy, trigger motivation and a sense of lightness, and which ones trigger feelings of heaviness and stress.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\"><strong>Start doing whatever exercise or movement engages your mind, body and spirit.<\/strong> It can be just a few minutes daily if you haven\u2019t done anything for a while. Eventually, you want to have something that contains all four groups: cardio, strengthening, flexibility, and detox. I walk for cardio and detox (break a sweat) and do yoga or ballet warm ups for strengthening and flexibility.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Movement will activate your digestion and help your body to get rid of toxins. It will clear your mind. And, it just might make you feel less depressed and less anxious (mindful movement does that!)&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-UfNftot_7E&amp;ab_channel=Tatiana%E2%80%98Tajci%E2%80%99Cameron\"><\/a><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/tatianacameron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2020-Blog-SM-posts-18.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2020 Blog SM posts (18)&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;76.4%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; height=&#8221;464px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;50px||50px||false|false&#8221; box_shadow_style=&#8221;preset3&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|auto|-40px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||20px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Nunito|600|on||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#BE1E2D&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;45px&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Nunito||||||||&#8221; header_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#BE1E2D&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;2px|124px|6px|124px||&#8221;]<p>Music\u00a0<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-53px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;1640px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;on|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|124px||123px||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Speaking of moving and hearts, this moved mine so much\u2026 I came across this video accidentally (or not\u2026 \ud83d\ude09\u00a0) when I was looking for the YouTube link of the Window in the Wall. I had no idea that Olivia Newton John performed at the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=vaMpcEx_hco&amp;feature=youtu.be&amp;ab_channel=BlankFormatted\">Eurovision Song Contest in 1974<\/a>\u00a0representing the United Kingdom. She lost to the historic ABBA victory with \u201cWaterloo.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The song is sweet, and the live orchestra, her beautiful smile and energy and a great performance is just heart-warming and up-lifting. \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Now here is the cool part: both ONJ and I participated at Eurovision. I was four in 1974 &#8211; the exact time when I dreamed up my dream of \u2018telling stories through music and making our world a little bit better.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s as if some Divine angels were spinning the web just right so that in 2021, Window in the Wall song would happen\u2026 and move hearts\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I actually think everything works this way\u2026 so much has to happen for each one of us that puts us exactly where we are today. Most of it we will never find out. But when we get a little glimpse of it, it\u2019s powerful, isn&#8217;t it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.7&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Speaking of moving and hearts, this moved mine so much\u2026 I came across this video accidentally (or not\u2026 \ud83d\ude09\u00a0) when I was looking for the YouTube link of the Window in the Wall. I had no idea that Olivia Newton John performed at the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=vaMpcEx_hco&amp;feature=youtu.be&amp;ab_channel=BlankFormatted\">Eurovision Song Contest in 1974<\/a>\u00a0representing the United Kingdom. She lost to the historic ABBA victory with \u201cWaterloo.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">The song is sweet, and the live orchestra, her beautiful smile and energy and a great performance is just heart-warming and up-lifting. \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">Now here is the cool part: both ONJ and I participated at Eurovision. I was four in 1974 &#8211; the exact time when I dreamed up my dream of \u2018telling stories through music and making our world a little bit better.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">It\u2019s as if some Divine angels were spinning the web just right so that in 2021, Window in the Wall song would happen\u2026 and move hearts\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000000;\">I actually think everything works this way\u2026 so much has to happen for each one of us that puts us exactly where we are today. Most of it we will never find out. 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You keep at it, you push through the hard times, and you learn to enjoy every minute of it - because after so many ups and downs, you learn to let go of your attachment to the outcome and you trust that Love (God) will organize all the pieces (that you put your heart into) for you. (I just wrote a poem about that last week. LOL)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You find satisfaction in your work - especially when it touches someone, or provides value for someone - which is the case with all meaningful work!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>And you are happy. Fulfilled.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Like my son, Blais, who got himself a job at the local grocery store. After his first day of training, I asked him what his responsibilities would be. He said \u201cI\u2019m in customer service. 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Blais\u2019 manager could have told him his job was to bag groceries quickly and efficiently, and to compete with the next kid at the number of shopping carts they can pull in one swoop. <strong>Instead, they gave him the gift of a mindset that puts people - and service - before productivity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I guess the manager also knows that with that mindset, Blais will naturally work faster and more efficiently - and everyone wins. And of course, this takes trust. Being pleasant to customers isn\u2019t something a manager can put out as a neat checklist or a measurable goal. Trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Now, back to my song\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>A few years back, when I first moved to Nashville, I met Tom Paden, a songwriter who wrote hit songs for artists like Reba McEntire. Tom suggested we co-write a song that I would record and enter it into the Eurovision Song Contest. A few days later, he showed up at my house with his writing partner, Eddie Kilgallon.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie had an idea for a song about the Wall (as in the Berlin wall) - an anthem about what happens when the wall comes down and people come together.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You can imagine I had a few things to say about that, LOL\u2026 but the most important thing for me was that <strong>big changes don\u2019t happen fast.<\/strong> It\u2019s a process.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>(Full disclosure here: I wasn\u2019t talking about life in Europe. I was drawing from my marriage struggles. Matthew and I had just come out of our separation and were working on healing our relationship.)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>When the conflict grows too big, we build walls because we need something to keep us from charging at each other, and constantly attacking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then, the wall keeps us away. But our anger and unresolved conflicts grow in our minds and hearts, which makes the other side seem full of dark shadows and scary monsters.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>We keep this up for a while, but eventually we get tired (because anger and fear are exhausting, and walls make us feel constricted).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Then something happens, or someone comes along who inspires us to address the wall (because there is still the Divine that finds a way to interfere with our human quarrels and stubbornness) and we feel willing to try.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>What happens in that moment is what this song talks about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Tom and Eddie put a demo together and it came out so well that we decided to pitch it to some major artists (instead of having me sing it).<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I released my attachment to the outcome, and trusted that Eddie and Tom knew what they were doing. We all wanted the song to get out there and reach a lot of people with its beautiful message and melody. Tom and Eddie did a lot of pitching, but they also trusted that the right artist would come along. Olivia Newton-John heard the song (through a very unconventional channel connected to her non-profit) and was immediately drawn to it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>:)<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. Do the work and then trust.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>\u201cWindow in the Wall\u201d is perfect for the times we live in. I\u2019ve been reading the comments on Olivia\u2019s social media, and people are already commenting on how much they needed this shot of hope and encouragement.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>So here are three things I hope can be a bit of an inspiration for you today:<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong>(1) Keep showing up. Find little joys in everyday tasks.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you are out of work, keep finding meaningful work - learn something, help someone, create something. Nourish your soul, mind, and heart with uplifting content - music, art. Nurture your body with healthy foods and walks in nature. Update your resume, research or contact potential employers, rebrand yourself if you have to (I\u2019ve done that a few times\u2026), stay in shape, and then let it go.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Trust. 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